Very random thoughts

Why has nobody come up with a medicine to heal the common head cold? It's not like it hasn't been around for-E-VER. You would think there would have been enough time and research and come up with something by now.

And why is my husband's cold always so much worse than mine? If you have never seen this, you must watch Man Cold. It will make you laugh in that British humor sort of way.

I finally found my cell phone! So sorry for those of you that were calling on it for days. It was in my black coat pocket and I was wearing my denim jacket for the last couple of warmer days. This is yet, another reason why one should not to have too many coats. I really thought it was gone forever and I was getting a cool new iPhone. Then...I found it. This one doesn't even take pictures. Oh, the horror in my life. But really it is so nice when you find something that you have misplaced. You appreciate it so much more.

What possessed my 3 year old son to rip my husband's bible? Or do I even have to ask that question? And exactly how do you punish a child for this? "The pages feel funny mommy." "Yeah, they are bible pages - they feel like that!" I fixed it with some Scotch tape. Scotch tape that I had to do a search and rescue for in my 7 year old's room. What is it with kids and the Scotch tape?????

Easter and St. Patrick's Day are in this same month. How am I to decorate? And what ever am I to do in April? Big sigh. This is a homemaker's nightmare, really.

Oh, the really important stuff in life. It keeps me up at night.

Messy

I really appreciate your caring comments in regards to my Going Postal post. I guess many of us have these big hearts and just take in more than they can handle sometimes.


I am actually comforted by that.


I think that God created us to need each other and hurt for one another. I would feel very sad if it were the other way around.


I think that too often we can shelter ourselves in our own little "perfect" world and put up walls into other people's messy lives. The thing is, we need each other. We need to get messy with people and we need them to get messy with us when the time comes. You will note I said when and not if. Because, life just happens, and sometimes it is messy.


I don't want to be that person that shelters myself from others lives. I want to be the person that wants to open my heart and lend an listening ear to other's sorrow (and their joys, too!)


I want to be the person that draws another to me just to pray for them because they see kindness in my face or hear gentleness in my voice.


I want to be the person that is not afraid to touch a friend who is in the hospital or the homeless guys that attend my church.


I want to be the person who listens to the woman who talks too much about her problems in bible study.


I want to be the friend that comforts, commiserates, consoles, listens, helps, loves and speaks truth when needed.


I just want to be able to do these things and then give it to the One whose heart is big enough to handle all the messiness the world can create.


None of my friends that I spoke of last week even asked for me to fix a thing. Some of them didn't even call me specifically. And some of them just called because they knew I would listen.


Thank God I am able to be there for them. Thank God that I don't have any of these larger issues happening in my life right now, so that I have the opportunity to listen to theirs. Thank God that they trust me to pray for them. What a privilege!


I just chose to take their pain and tuck it in my heart. To make it my own. I chose to worry about it. Not to show concern, but to worry. Big difference there.

And then was gently reminded in my study this week. "Do not worry." Jesus says not to worry 5 times in Matthew 25-34. He says, "Do not worry, I've got it covered."
Okay, okay, I'm beginning to get it.

Sunday Song

I have a terrible head cold today, so do my kids and it has been one emotional week. So, I don't have much to say. But I can't leave you with the same ole' post from yesterday! I found this while spending too much time on the internet and wanted to pass it along.

If you have a minute listen and watch this beautiful song and video production from Buckhead Church in Atlanta. You will now be redirected to Ragamuffin Soul dot com.



Enjoy,

Going Postal

I am not really sure I want to share this story, but feel I need to. At least this way you will have very clear picture of how perfect I am not.

I would love for those who do not know me personally to have some image of me that is completely put together and creative and complete. But, my nature is to be real with you. I am transparent to a fault sometimes.

Yesterday afternoon, I had to mail a package. A simple errand, right?

I realized I did not have the appropriate shipping materials at home when I went to prepare my package. So, I had to drag my uncooperative 3 year old into a very crowded small post office in the late afternoon before picking up my daughter from her dance class. I walked in and picked up one of those puffy pretty envelopes and labels that sit right in the front of the post office lobby. You know, the ones that are overpriced and if you are a put together person, you never need because you always have the proper supplies at home.

So, anyway, because I was not completely prepared, I had to pick up one of those pretty envelopes to prepare my package for shipping.

Since the line was so long, I tried to do this while in line. I didn't have a pen in my purse. (Of course I didn't, although there were some crayons) So, when I finally got to the front, I asked if she could just weigh it all and print me the stamp. Then I could finish it up and drop it in the box. She was none too pleased with this idea and fussed at us all in line that we needed to have our packages ready when we got to her line. She roughly handed me pen and I went to a counter to address my package.

When I finished, the line was twice as long and I initially decided to just leave and do this another day. Then I remembered I had just put my items in that pretty envelope that I had not yet paid for. Ugh!!!! I was completely frustrated with myself mostly, but also with the situation and the long lines. I tossed the pen back up on the counter and went to the back of the line.

So, the attendant then starts to "scold" me in front of all of these people. I was embarrassed and immediately grieved my behavior. It was only then I realized my son has been watching this entire scene. Shame on mommy. Anyway, I do not believe this woman handled this situation in the correct manner either, but I am sure she was under stress and just had enough of frustrated and unprepared customers. I was the lucky one that she decided to let loose on.

And you know what I did right there in my small town post office with about half the town looking on? I cried. I cried like I have not cried in a long time. The floodgates opened and I just boo hooed right there in front of all these people. I did manage to quickly pull myself together, pay for my items and apologize to the attendant. She wanted to scold me some more and then I just told her it had nothing to do with her and that I was sorry again. I asked her to be more patient with people because you just never know what they have going on in their lives.

I left there, drove to pick up my daughter and wondered what in the sam hill just happened in there? I don't cry easily. Really I don't. And here I was just crying because this post office attendant scolded me after my behavior was less than gracious.

Then I realized it was not really the situation I was in, but rather all the stuff that was going on in my life that I had not dealt with that day. The stuff I was trying to deal with and not letting go of.

There are people, friends, all around me right now dealing with huge life issues.
Addiction--suicide--divorce--financial loss--death of loved ones--deep depression.

I, thankfully, am not dealing with any of these issues in my own life. But my heart just aches for these friends of mine. I mean it is so heavy with hurt for these special people and I have been just carrying it around with me. It is as if I have a backpack and I just keep loading it up with each hurt of these friends and carrying it around. As if carrying it will ease their burden somehow.

So, as I sat in the car while my daughter finished up dance. I prayed and let a little go.
I am letting a little more go now by writing this post.
I will let more go later. More tomorrow.
I will keep praying that God protect these friends of mine and lead me to help them in the best way I can. I can't fix their problems, I can't take the hurt away and I cannot carry their burdens around.

But I can listen to them, love them and I can pray for them. I can lift them up to an almighty God who can take all that hurt and turn it into hope. Someone who can meet them where they are, love them in ways I can't and bring healing to their lives. His back is very strong and he wants me to put my backpack down now.

Loving but letting go,