I Would Never Do That

This week, I was witness to one of the most ridiculous attacks of judgment against a good friend of mine.    In particular, her mothering skills were under fire and from a woman who has no children of her own.  I can tell you that she did not deserve the attack.

It's not that I don't think that one who does not have children can't have opinions about how to raise children.  Certainly there are those who have a real heart for kids but for one reason or another don't have them.   I do, however, think they should be careful about dispensing advice to those that do.    As a matter of fact, even if you do have your own kids, I think it's a good idea to be prudent in dispensing unwanted advice.  At least, not until you've walked a mile in that parent's shoes.   Because raising kids, while full of much joy, is no picnic.  Unless you are on a picnic and that is just plain fun. 

Anyway, it reminded me of a favorite saying, 

I thought I knew how to raise children, too. 

Then I had some of my own.

Because really, isn't it true?  Did you say you'd never do something when you had kids but then after you had them,  you did?

Like, I'd never bribe my kids to get them to do what I wanted.  I would never let my child throw a tantrum in a store.  I'd never feed my kids ice cream for breakfast (we were on vacation, y'all).  I'd never spank them.  I'd never yell at them.  I would always patiently and kindly guide them instead.   I would always make sure their hair was combed before school.   I'd never ever miss any extra-curricular activity they participate in.  I'd never feed them junk food.   I'd  never let them watch too much TV.  

Good golly the list could go on.

I'd love to know that one thing you said you'd never do with your kids that you have done, or do now.


Happy St. Patrick's Day, everyone!!!  My maiden name is all Irish from my paternal Grandfather.  How about you?  Where does your Irish come from?